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Most attractive focus is equally charming in its sweetness. Don’t we all want to get to the sweet nucleus? That gooey center of gravity where everything is a candy-coated sprawl of unending delight. It’s the melt in your mouth mantra we’re aiming for life. Where it all feels as good as treats taste. When we can relax for as long as we so wish or emphasize our days by any means we like. If you were ever a fan, or simply want to join the club, for debunking delays and gaining gratification anytime, I think my idea of training a marshmallow focus will tempt you at least a teeny bit. Where properly enticed we more freely romp in happy childlike abandon. You can actually feel yourself soften, you leave room for changes with ease, have plenty of energy for fun, and work well alone or with others. Giving ourselves the formula for realizing the difference between heart and faint of heart is elementary for our maximum mindset. As you learn to focus more often in the marshmallowy ways, easy becomes so welcoming!

Most people have no idea of the giant capacity we can immediately command when we focus all of our resources on mastering a single area of our lives. ~Tony Robbins

Now, what if we all set out to focus on focus? Imagine if each item you focused upon served you with eloquent, major, momentous, expressive consequence. What a plan, to be filled with such persistent personal hospitality! This is, and is not, a brain teaser (she playfully loves to wiggle your synapses like DJ Prashant during a Bollywood Jai Ho! dance-off). The purpose of setting your sights to cozy, inviting spaces of thought is that your genius remembers how good these notions are and will more readily come back for more. Let’s say I decide to write a blog for creative and therapeutic release. While my inner dictator rails (and rallies with specific friends or family) to remind how I should spend all of my waking blinks seeking continued paying clients to beef my bank account. Yet: ‘You are the chief of your timeline’ rebounds, but a sound from ancient powers that have come before me. All of the influence rests within our individual intelligence to garnish gifts of living with whatever legacy we may muster. Quiet the chaos chatter to anchor into what’s right for you.

Discovering what you really want saves you endless confusion and wasted energy. ~Stuart Wilde

Sweet is the root desire of all situations. We urge a happy ending. Even if you want to debate me that you really prefer hardcore sex, rappelling, or a mouth-breaking burn from a spicy phaal, I’m gonna retort that’s your “sweet spot” ~ in essence, sugary by nature of your inclinations toward those matters. Selection is the defining station from looking to our history as a battlefield or playground. It’s the happenstance example of what occurs as we transfer any pinball focus of bouncing about into a marshmallowy focus of what feels like heavenly goodness to us. Lifting the haze of following all external orders to design your time as you prioritize is healthy. As well, engrossing this type of focus helps build a drama-free zone. The less you expend yourself targeting disconcerting conditions the greater your eagerness to live long and prosper. Beauty shows up when our only stress is the stressing of our highlighted concentrations on doing that which elevates our happiness.

That’s been one of my mantras — focus and simplicity. Simple can be harder than complex: You have to work hard to get your thinking clean to make it simple. But it’s worth it in the end because once you get there, you can move mountains. ~Steve Jobs

Another native feature at the hub of this distinct focal philosophy I’ll hypothesize is the ‘mallow’ spotlight fact of malleability. That squishy bulk that mushes liberally or in many directions, as handily as it remains plump. We are muddled by too much. Every one of our thoughts doesn’t have to develop. Just as some dreams are meant for sleeping and not to be brought over unto the waking world. Preserving custody to be clear-headed ought to be a polite practice in one’s daily slate. For the extent to which we apply the laser aims, we favor we may foretell a warranty of wisdom. Even that we must labor to locate the innocence of plainness that comes when we are clear about our focus, in effect, it arrives us to vanquish the challenges dangling when we’ve allowed complicated manners. Besides, enjoying the ride of focused modifications as we grow is a lighter, collected rational.

You don’t get results by focusing on results. You get results by focusing on the actions that produce results. ~Mike Hawkins

Quite possibly the cornerstone of knowing you’re utilizing a marshmallow focus is the ability in all that you do to work well with others or alone. The next time you meet a marshmallow take a moment to explore the weight of this statement. Regard its glory all by itself. That confection carries more punch in its puffiness than most heavyweights can earn over a lifetime. All by lonesome, the marshmallow stands strong and has a huge following. Then, ponder the natural pull of it into a cup of cocoa or the effulgence as a s’more. When we stop intellectually masturbating and stick to doing what our focus tells us is our nifty niche we acquire more manageability, progress, and wield results. Craft the talent to be anywhere and handle all times. Sift out the behaviors and operations that bleed your best actions. When being it is best to just do, as when focusing I highly recommend a mastery of marshmallow focus.

When walking, walk. When eating, eat. ~Zen Proverb

Make everyone swivel when you’re flaunting your famed focus.

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